With the drop in temperatures this week and the odd shower of sleet it really feels like Christmas is approaching.
You’d have to have a heart of stone not to await with glee the festivities.
Well that was certainly true in years gone by, but the reality this year will be a lot different for many.
Christmas has been overtaken by glutinous eating, splurging of the cash, outdoing the neighbours when it comes to decorating our houses, and getting one up on the Jones’ when it comes to buying presents.
Now the time has come for us to get back to basics. We must remember what Christmas is about: the religious ceremonies and the meaning behind them, the arrival of Santa Claus, and spending quality time with family and friends.
This year provides us with a great opportunity to cut out the ridiculous present buying charade that is completely unnecessary. When you have to think about what you want for Christmas you know that life isn’t all that bad. If there is something you need, then receiving it as a present is a great relief. Spending time with friends and family and sharing a meal or a few drinks in each other’s company, whether that be by the cosy fire at home or in the local pub, these are the occasions from where memories are born.
And as far as shopping local, the message is still the same — shop local and save jobs. Remember at this time of year those businesses who have been the mainstay of your community over the years and who need your support now more than ever. Put some thought into where you are buying your Christmas goodies. Remember those shops and businesses who sponsor the local sporting teams and are always willing to support community endeavours.
Take the children to town for a stroll around. Visit Santa’s grotto. Enjoy the carol singers. Admire the Christmas lights. Stop rushing and racing and stressing and let the children set the agenda for a change. Don’t just drag them around the shops in the freezing cold, giving out to them when they get tired and nagging them when they want to sit down. Enjoy a coffee or hot chocolate and watch the passers by.
Take note of the businesses who have come together in your local town with special offers at an attempt to lure you through their doors. They work hard all year too, and these next few weeks could determine whether many can stay open in the New Year.
If you have a few bob to spare or can afford to pick up a few children’s toys, drop into the Saint Vincent de Paul and through your generosity let them bring some Christmas cheer into someone else’s life.
Those who need our help this year may not be instantly recognisable, but the Saint Vincent de Paul know how to find them. It could be your neighbour, your friend, your relative, but pride may prevent them from seeking your assistance. However it’s easier to ask a stranger for help and a society like the Saint Vincent de Paul, among others, will ensure many families are looked after this year.
We all have stresses and strains in our lives. Our ability to deal with obstacles varies. So let’s try and forget about that outstanding bill or that standing order that won’t be covered this month, or how we could do with a few more euros to have a comfortable Christmas, and we’ll easily forget what we are going without when we laugh, play, and reminisce together.
