According to the Health Service Executive’s (HSE ) National Clinical Programme for Eating Disorders, over 188,000 people in Ireland are affected by eating disorders - serious and complex conditions with increased risk of mortality.
Boys and men affected by eating disorders have often been under-recognised and under-treated. In fact, one in four eating disorders may be experienced by a man. Bodywhys; The Eating Disorders Association of Ireland are shining a light on eating disorders in boys, men and those who identify as male and raising awareness around challenges that men can face in recognising their symptoms as that of an eating disorder and in diagnosis, treatment, and recovery.
The theme for Eating Disorders Awareness Week 2023, which runs until March 5, ‘Breaking The Stigma: Diverse Male Experiences With Eating Disorders and Body Image’, originating from increasing presentations of men with complex eating disorders, aims to bring the unique male experience to the foreground and to break down the stigma that may stand in the way of men reaching out for help.
A misunderstanding that eating disorders are a ‘female problem/illness’ can be part of the stigma experienced by men. It may take some men months or years to acknowledge their experiences may be that of an eating disorder. This can delay help-seeking and lead to them becoming more unwell. Several online events are taking place throughout the week, focusing on topics such as the experience of boys, men, and those who identify as male, as well as families, siblings and partners.
“When I was young and sick I didn’t see anyone dealing with what I was dealing with or anyone talking about surviving. I felt hopeless, broken beyond repair, alone and doomed. We need more men speaking up, we need more stories people might be able to relate to so they can see hope.
“My parents were told that ‘boys don’t get eating disorders’. That prevented me from getting the help I needed and added to the shame and isolation I already felt,” Chris Duff (Bodywhys Media Panel Member ), sai.
“Research evidence shows that men experiencing eating disorders may be misunderstood, there are some symptoms that may be more male orientated such as a focus on shape, leanness and muscle definition. Compulsive exercise or anxiety from missing a workout may also be a significant concern.
“Last year, we set up our men’s online support group to offer a space for men to share experiences that are unique to them. The group runs monthly, in addition to our weekly Bodywhys Connect group, which is open to everyone. We invite anyone who wants to learn more, support someone or raise awareness to get involved this Eating Disorders Awareness Week, you can find all the details on our website www.bodywhys.ie and social media platforms,” Ellen Jennings (Communications Officer at Bodywhys ), added.
People can and do recover from eating disorders